Completely agree with the response. I think it's great and all that the couple wants people to do carbon offsets, but they can't really expect them to add that expense just in order to come to their wedding.

So much change in the world but compassion,understanding and patience for others learning new ways is needed. Also respect for others beliefs is important..

Interesting. I have yet to run into this, but know of several other situations that are similar. I tend to equate it to non-green request, and evaluate in the same way. Some requests are just too much for the guest to handle financially.

thanks