I moved in with a new roommate, and while I’m all for recycling and turning off the lights, he takes greening our apartment a little too far for me — he follows the saying, “If it’s yellow let it mellow!”
He’s never asked me to follow this rule, but I really hate finding the toilet bowl in that state. How can I get him to stop?
- Mike D.
Is it just the idea that has you a little squeamish? Consider the math: On average, a person, ahem, "yellows" 7 times a day1; multiply that by the average 1.3 gallons of water used to "flush it down"(on toilets installed after 1992 — the gallons-per-flush is much higher for older models)2, and we're talking about 63+ gallons of water you could save every a week by following your roommate's favorite mantra (and 127+ if you keep letting him follow it). As I think we can all agree that decreasing the frequency of your flushes is definitely beneficial to Mother Nature, it sounds like the real question here is, "Yes, it's green, but is it clean?"
If you're worried about the cleanliness of the toilet bowl, perhaps you can ask your roommate to make sure he's following up weekly with a good eco-cleaning. There are lots of homemade, natural, non-toxic cleaners you can make for your commode including one here on eHow.
Only you can determine your comfort level with seeing a very personal side of your roommate in your shared powder room. If it's just too much to take, have a conversation with your fellow lodger, and find some compromises — consider all the other ways you can help conserve water in the house. From installing low flow faucets, to taking shorter showers, to saving rain water for watering plants, offer up some solutions that will make him comfortable as well.
Recyclebankers: How have you gotten visitors to abide by your green rules? Share your own thoughts in the comments below!
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